“Do not compare, do not measure. No other way is like yours. All other ways deceive and tempt you. You must fulfill the best way that is in you.”

— Carl Jung  

Comparison is a form of following. 

And we all follow someone, or some idea. 

And then usually we compare ourselves with the idea we follow – & the other followers of the idea – whether it’s a religious idea, a scientific idea, an athletic idea, an educational idea, a government idea, an artists idea, etc. 

We find ourselves comparing ourselves to those we want to fit in with. 

We mostly follow, and that’s ok.  

So what does it mean to lead?  

The answer differs for all people. 

To lead is to find your own style; to find what works for you.

Research and learn about the subjects and ideas and people and organizations you are interested in. 

Don’t try to imitate them completely – but think about what it is you admire about them, and try applying it to your life.

Choose multiple role models, multiple organizations, multiple ideas, and choose from a place that comes from within you – & not a place of just trying to appear a certain way. 

Keep learning & keep changing if you discover more things you are interested in. 

It’s ok to change. 

It’s ok to not conform. 

And it’s ok to lead.