1) “‘But what if I can’t?’
‘Then you’ll die in the midst of trying to realize your destiny. That’s a lot better than dying like millions of other people, who never even knew what their destinies were.’”
2) “‘Why don’t people’s hearts tell them to continue to follow their dreams?’
‘Because that’s what makes a heart suffer most, and hearts don’t like to suffer.’”
3) “He still had some doubts about the decision he had made. But he was able to understand one thing: making a decision was only the beginning of things. When someone makes a decision, he is really diving into a strong current that will carry him to places he had never dreamed of when he first made the decision.”
4) “‘And what went wrong when other alchemists tried to make gold and were unable to do so?’
‘They were looking only for gold. They were seeking the treasure of their destiny, without wanting actually to live out the destiny.’”
5) “People are afraid to pursue their most important dreams, because they feel that they don’t deserve them, or that they’ll be unable to achieve them.”
6) “And anyone who interferes with the destiny of another thing never will discover his own.”
7) “My heart is afraid that it will have to suffer.’
‘Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering it self. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.’”
8) “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.”
9) “It’s true; life really is generous to those who pursue their destiny.”
10) “…When I have been truly searching for my treasure, I’ve discovered things along the way that I never would have seen had I not had the courage to try things that seemed impossible for a shepherd to achieve.”
11) “To do that successfully, I must have no fear of failure. It was my fear of failure that first kept me from attempting the Master Work. Now, I’m beginning what I could have started ten years ago. But I’m happy at least that I didn’t wait twenty years.”
12) “‘Everyone on earth has a treasure that awaits him,’ his heart said. ‘We, people’s hearts, seldom say much about those treasures, because people no longer want to go in search of them. We speak of them only to children. Later, we simply let life proceed, in its own direction, toward its own fate. But, unfortunately, very few follow the path laid out for them—the path to their destinies, and to happiness. Most people see the world as a threatening place, and, because they do, the world turns out, indeed, to be a threatening place.”
13) “The boy told himself that, on the way toward realizing his own destiny, he had learned all he needed to know, and had experienced everything he might have dreamed of.”
Vincent Van Gogh, Michael Jordan, Thomas Edison, Stephen King, J.K. Rowling, Albert Einstein, Walt Disney, Steven Spielberg, Dr. Seuss, Oprah, Steve Jobs, Elvis Presley, Mark Cuban, and just about every other successful person.
What do all these people have in common?
Failure. Rejections. People doubting them.
But they also had & have perseverance & belief in their vision.
It’s more than a mindset.
It’s a pull.
Life pulls people toward their destiny but few people listen to life.
“Be in the world but not of the world.”
The world tells you to settle.
Life, the infinite, gives you signs of what you should do—your passions, hobbies, interests, etc.
But the world tells you you can’t do that as a career.
They tell you you’ll fail.
And you will. At first.
But in time you will succeed.
“Failures, repeated failures, are finger posts on the road to achievement. One fails forward toward success.”
• J.K. Rowling’s original Harry Potter book was rejected 12 times before it was accepted.
• Dr. Suess’s first book was rejected 28 times before it was accepted.
• Stephen King’s first book, Carrie, was rejected by 30 publishers before it was accepted.
• Oprah was told she wasn’t fit to be on television.
• Steve Jobs was fired from the company that HE CREATED!
• Thomas Edison talks about failing over 10,000 times.
• Walt Disney experienced bankruptcy and a mental breakdown
• Vincent Van Gogh only sold ONE painting during his lifetime…He made over 900 paintings.
They never gave up because their purpose was never about “money.”
They “failed” over, and over, and over again, and again, and again.
Or maybe they just found a lot of ways that didn’t work.
“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
“I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is a step forward.”
Thomas A. Edison
The world laughed at them. And they will laugh at you if you try to attempt anything great, anything outside the “norm.”
Laugh with them. It is funny. And it will be even more funny when you make it, because it’s not about the critics and it’s not even about you. Your life’s work has a deeper purpose. It is life living through you.
It is Love.
As you begin to follow your life’s purpose, and it is hard in the beginning when you are experiencing failures, but the pull toward your purpose will grow within you. Your vision will be tested but your belief in it will grow as you persevere through the difficult times.
“Gold is tested by fire, and human character is tested in the furnace of humiliation.”
“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.”
Don’t fear failure. Fear never trying.
More inspiring quotes to help you persevere through failure:
“The phoenix must burn to emerge.”
“You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. It is good to have a failure while you’re young because it teaches you so much. For one thing it makes you aware that such a thing can happen to anybody, and once you’ve lived through the worst, you’re never quite as vulnerable afterward.”
“Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.”
“Failure after long perseverance is much grander than never to have a striving good enough to be called a failure.”
“Failure is success if we learn from it.”
“You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on it. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.”
“Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.”
“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.”
“I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.”
“Women, like men, should try to do the impossible. And when they fail, their failure should be a challenge to others.”
“Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”
Robert F. Kennedy
“Failure is only the opportunity to begin again, only this time more wisely.”
“Remember that failure is an event, not a person.”
“Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.”
“It is fine to celebrate success, but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.”
“Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.”
“Success is never final, failure is never fatal. It’s courage that counts.”
“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
“Failure is so important. We speak about success all the time. It is the ability to resist failure or use failure that often leads to greater success. I’ve met people who don’t want to try for fear of failing.”
“If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties.”
Have you ever been so confident in something & then ended up wrong?
I’ve tried to put together a small table without following the directions & after failing I finally decided to use the directions.
An ignorant confidence does that to us all. Blind faith is easy.
Over the years I have learned that I know nothing for sure. I am confident in that and so I can live confidently, forever learning. Confident in trying something so many times, and failing, until I can do it with complete confidence.
Confidence is a great trait to have in all aspects of life, but HOW you gain that confidence is more important than “confidence” itself.
In a world that praises fake confidence & bravado, why and how can you use doubt to breed REAL confidence?
“The dumbest people I know are those who know it all.”
Remain humble —You stop learning when you are confident in “knowing it all:”
“Men cease to think when they think they know it all.”
“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.”
Doubt can help you improve.
It’s a sign that there is something to learn, always.
Instead of having blind confidence in whatever it is you’re doing, question it & LEARN.
Do you follow directions when building things like tables for the first time?
I do now. Doubt guides me to follow the directions because I doubt I can build a table without directions if I’ve never done it before.
So why can’t we apply this idea to other aspects of life?
We can question things & look for answers until we learn what we need to to succeed & grow in that area.
And no matter what there’s always more to learn!
Doubt allows you to think critically and opens your mind.
“If someone can prove me wrong and show me my mistake in any thought or action, I shall gladly change. I seek the truth, which never harmed anyone: the harm is to persist in one’s own self-deception and ignorance.”
Having doubt will prepare you for anything you anticipate. Soldiers train every day to stay ready for battle, because if they had 100% confidence without training, they would fail. Doubt is a guide for them, as it is with all people.
“The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize.”
People who doubt are preparing themselves for the future, which is today. (Yesterday the future was today…)
“If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things.”
Some people don’t want to be wrong in the fear of looking stupid. That is stupidity in itself.
“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.”
“The less people know, the more stubbornly they know it.”
Ignorance is NOT bliss.
Doubt is a good thing.
It will lead you to a REAL, humble confidence.
Doubt will keep you learning and growing throughout all of your days.
“Uncertainty also relieves us of our judgment of ourselves. Then we don’t know if we’re lovable or not; we don’t know how attractive we are; we don’t know how successful we could potentially become. The only way to achieve these things is to remain uncertain of them and be open to finding them out through experience. Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth. As the old adage goes, the man who believes he knows everything learns nothing. We cannot learn anything without first not knowing something.”
“Always be suspicious of those who pretend to know it all, claim their way is the best way and are willing to force their way on the rest of us.”
“The only thing I know is that I know nothing.”
I can agree with Socrates in saying that I also know nothing.
You don’t need to fight doubt. It’s there for a reason.
Allow doubt to prepare you and guide you to real confidence.